My mission for 2019

The year of 2018 was very busy for me.  I planned a wedding for most of the year while work had me consumed more than I would like to admit.  If I’m totally honest with you, the hectic year took me away from taking care of myself the way that I should.  I should have been losing weight for a wedding and I was instead gaining.  Let’s not talk about all the coins I spent throughout the year as well.

The year of 2018 left my wallet empty and it also left me carrying around more weight around my midsection and face than I really want to confess to.

Almost 9 years ago, I made a conscious decision to lose weight and slowly the weight melted off of me.  I looked like a completely different person the following year and I swore I would never gain weight again.  Well now, most of that weight has found its way back to me after years of not being as mindful of things I consumed and lack of exercise.  So, guess what time it is?  It’s time to start this journey all over again.

So, I’m doing this with no regrets.  I’m leaving all the stress of 2018 in 2018 and I am putting ME and my wallet first!  I am devoting 2019 to losing weight and to building all my accounts back up!  Yes, all of them!  I also realize that my life is totally different from what it was 9 years ago so it may not be as easy and I may not even get to the size I once wore, but I’m willing to put in all of the work, plus more!

How will I put myself first?

I will make time for my workouts.  I realize that exercise is very important when it comes to losing weight as well as maintaining your weight.  That means I may have to cut hours at my part-time job because it is just that important.  Or, perhaps I would depend on the hubby or teenage kids to plan a simple meal while momma gets her exercise on.

I must also cut back on sugars and carbs and maximize my fiber and vegetable intake.  I’ve done it before, I can do it again.  All it takes is willpower and the art of consistency.  Basically, I need for my waist to get smaller and my wallet to get fatter and not the reverse.

I can also make easy and smart decision by grabbing a protein shake as a meal replacement or even taking an extra walk in the evenings.

But please, feel free to check-up on ya girl from time to time to see how I’m doing because the carbs be calling my name like I’m a soldier at war.

Anyone else need to rededicate themselves to putting yourself (or your wallet) first?  Let’s do it!  Take a moment to process your 2018 and make small changes here and there in efforts to continue cultivating yourself into the best YOU there is!

We can do it!



9 thoughts on “My mission for 2019

  1. You can do it, girl! I’m rooting for you!

    2018 was definitely a rough year for me too! I put on extra pounds in the beginning of the year that I liked (happy weight lol). But by the end of the year I was so stressed that I lost it all! So I’m definitely rededicating 2019 to finding myself! Already into the first week of the year I have stepped out on faith and quit my job (super scary, but necessary). A job that I prayed to God for, just to realize that it wasn’t for me! I have always struggled with mental illness; anxiety and depression, so I have already taken the first steps in tackling this by scheduling an appointment with a therapist! And I have gotten rid of a writers block that has taunted me for about 10 years and using that to be open about everything I am going through and everything I want to accomplish! I’m claiming 2019 as my year! OUR year! We got this!

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    • Hey Kristen! Yes, I’m claiming that this will be OUR year! Continue to walk in your faith and to allow your test to be your testimony. I can’t wait to read about your story. I know it will help people near and far! 💕


  2. We can do this Toya! I’ve slacked these last couple weeks but I’m going to dive right back in! I picked up some protein powder today to start making shakes at home! I know I’m weak when it comes to working out and eating right but I’m damn sure going to try my best! Love ya!

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  3. I’m planning the same really. Towards the end of the year I was starting to get into some good routines with the gym but have lost it a bit over the last few weeks. I’m also really trying to save. So like you – bit of time and commitment are needed to get me back on track. Best of luck achieving this – I hope you can slot it in with everything being so busy for you!

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  4. My mission is to grow my business wallet because I want to have a physical store next year and personally to change my wardrobe not done that since 2016 and a lot of things look worn-out

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